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Say Hello To The Sexness!

This should come as no surprise

by j. brotherlove

Yeah, I know this meme is old but give a brother a break; the weeks before (and the week after) Atlanta Black Gay Pride took it’s toll on thebrotherlove. I mean, an event like that doesn’t just happen, you know? My biggest regret is not having enough time to catch some of my collegaues doing their thang. But life must go on.

So now that I am getting back into the swing of things, what better way to celebrate than with a frivolous, online survey?

20 Questions to a Better Relationship

eXpressive: 7/10
Practical: 4/10
Physical: 6/10
Giver: 6/10

You are a XSYG—Expressive Sentimental Physical Giver. This makes you a Sex Bomb.

You are sexy sex sex sex! The sexness! You are the sexiest, hottest and most charismatic of all types. You are a captivating speaker and a great dinner date — relaxed, self-effacing, charming and generous. Your type probably has origins in something sad — trying to keep the peace in a tough family situation, or an early heartbreak — and you’ll probably want to address and resolve that at some point, but in your relationships that heartache is pure gold!

You lie effortlessly — not necessarily a bad thing. You can have problems with fidelity. You need frequent praise and validation, and in seeking it you can make decisions that aren’t consistent with your general good judgment. In other words, don’t cheat on your significant other just because someone is paying attention to you.

You strongly dislike conflict, and will avoid it. Like an XPYG, you give so much of yourself to your partner that you feel dismissed and unappreciated if you don’t get the same in return. But you internalize your feelings more and have a hard time getting over them. You don’t *want* to cheat — you just keep finding yourself in vulnerable situations. But you’ll stay with your partner in the long run from guilt and a desire to please.

Your sex life will always be hot. You are one of the rare people who can keep the fires of passion going forever — if you find a good match. Find another XSYG and you will never need (or want) anyone else again.

Of the 74425 people who have taken this quiz, 8.7 % are this type.

These result should come as no surprise to regular vistors of this site. Although, I must say I took care of thet pesky fidelity issue by choosing polyamory as my relationship model; suits me much better. Any road up.

pub: 09/14/2004 | previous entry | next entry | feedback x 2 | subscribe

I am NOT touching this one.. LOL

2. Kathleen

Eeeeh..mine was TOO right. I’m an XPYG if u care to read about it j. lol